Keitha and Stuart Lackey spend 10 weeks raising Gilbert before he 'went off to college.'
BELMAR -- It was a clear match from the moment Ryan Jones spotted Gilbert from his wheelchair.
"That's my dog," Tracy Jones said of what her 24-year-old son, Ryan, said when he spotted the black labrador-retriever mix at an event that paired people with disabilities with canine companions.
Canine Companions for Independence, the organization that trained Gilbert to be an assistance dog, sent Gilbert home with the Jones family during Valentine's Day weekend. Nearly five months later, Gilbert and Ryan Jones are an in-sync duo in Virginia Beach, where the family lives -- and Jones is known as "the guy with the cool dog."
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"Primarily, the people we're serving are folks with physical limitations," said Lauren Ferraioli, puppy program manager at Canine Companions for Independence.
Before Gilbert was doted on by Jones, he was first pampered as a puppy by the Lackey family in New Jersey. Keitha and Stuart Lackey raised him for 10 weeks, then, following protocol, turned him over to Canine Companions to be trained as a service dog for six months.
"Stuart and I are empty nesters," said Keitha Lackey, who has two grown children living in Alexandria and Chicago. She admitted she was "leery" of taking on the responsibility of raising a puppy and wondered if would she be bound home because of it.
It turned out Gilbert was a better travel companion than she and Stuart anticipated.
"With Gilbert, we spent a month traveling the southeastern United States," she said. "He was better behaved than any of our children."
As a puppy, Gilbert experienced his share of adventure. He toured the United States by way of trains, boats, airplanes, and cars. Then he went off to Canine Companions for the next stage of his life, or puppy college, Lackey said.
"When we turned in Gilbert -- he was the first puppy that we raised -- when we turned him in, it doesn't bother the dogs at all because the other dogs that are about the same age are being turned in on the same day," Lackey said. "And the dogs see the training center, and they've got this new play yard and all kinds of toys and things, so the dogs are happy.
"They're meeting new friends -- it's like they're going off to college."
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Like parents dropping off their human children, Lackey said she was sad to see Gilbert off. She said almost everyone she talks to wonders how she and Stuart could get so attached to a dog just to relinquish them.
"We went into it with our eyes open," Lackey said. "We knew that we were going to have to give the dog up to be trained. You go into it knowing that."
But it wasn't goodbye forever. Six months later, the Lackeys saw Gilbert again.
"Gilbert recognized us, but he had matured over the six months he was in training," Lackey said. "And he's not jumping on us or overexcitable, but he was happy; he was excited. We were taking pictures and he came over and put his head right on my chest."
Then it was time for Gilbert, now a newly graduated assistance dog, to find his final home. Gilbert stood up on his hind legs, put his front paws on either side of Ryan's wheelchair, and looked his new owner in the face.
"Ryan loves him," his mother said. She said his first dog from Canine Companions, Josephine, also a labrador-retriever mix, died after living for nearly 13 years. "Ryan was very, very sad when he lost Josephine. They were attached -- they went everywhere together."
Gilbert and Ryan are developing that same kind of bond now, Tracy Jones said.
"Especially in the past month or so, I've noticed Ryan is more in tune with Gilbert," she said. "Like if he's panting if we've been outside, he'll say, 'Gilbert's hot, he needs to drink.' If he thinks he's hurt he'll say Gilbert's hurt, even if he might not be. He's very aware of him and having him as his dog."
At night, the two sleep side-by-side -- Ryan in his bed, and Gilbert in an elevated dog bed.
During the day, Tracy, a pediatric nurse, and her husband, Bruce, an optician, know Gilbert takes care of Ryan in some simple ways by picking things up for him. Then he takes care of him in some more unexpected ways.
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"Before Gilbert, people were kind of afraid to come up to Ryan and interact with him," Tracy Jones said. "And now with the dog it makes a huge difference in social interaction. People are like, 'Oh, you're the kid with the cool dog,' versus walking on the other side of the street so they don't have to talk to him."
She rests a little easier, too, knowing that her son isn't so alone.
"Ryan doesn't really have friends that come over, but I have comfort knowing that he has a buddy," Tracy Jones said. "And that goes a long way and makes a huge difference for Ryan."
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